
I visited Jaipur in April for a travel show and decided to extend the trip to include Varanasi and Amritsar because I have some guests who are interested in visiting these cities for trips next year.
I visited Varanasi about 4 years ago and, as a single woman, found it a little intimidating. It is an Indian city like no other. It bombards the senses from every direction. Visually it is a photographer’s nirvana. Light plays such an important role in capturing the essence of a person or place. Sunrise aboard a boat, drifting on the Ganges has to be one of the most serene ways to take a photograph.
The sun’s rays spread across the river illuminating the honey coloured buildings above the ghats, the stone steps which rise from the Ganges.

Now I understand why devout Hindus call it Kashi, “the City of Light.” Temples, shrines and ashrams line the river for 3 miles with around 70 ghats stretching down to the water.
Hindus believe that bathing in the Ganges will cleanse the body of sin and purify body and soul. To die in Varanasi will help a person achieve moksha, release from the cycle of rebirth. So, every day thousands arrive at the ghats, quietly saying prayers and performing their morning puja.
Worshippers take up the holy water in cupped hands and recite chants learned from their Mothers. (I have been told the occasional Bollywood song can also be heard, but I prefer to imagine the more traditional version.) Then they pour it back into th
e river, as an offering to ancestors and Gods. They present to the river, as they do to a deity, offerings of flowers and small clay oil lamps.
All around the city are streets with flower sellers whose stalls overflow with garlands of rich orange marigolds, roses of deep pink and delicate fragrant jasmine.
As the oarsman steered us gently downriver the silence was broken by the dhobi wallahs slapping wet clothes against the rocks to get them clean. As we moved on to the next ghat a yoga teacher was instructing his pupils on new positions via microphone. The unofficial “main” ghat at Dashashvamedh is a riot of colour with beautiful saris, the ladies standing, eyes closed, with hands in prayer. Later in the evening I would return here to savour the atmosphere in the evening Ganga Aarti (Evening prayers.)

Perhaps the most moving of all is Manikarnika Ghat where wisps of blue smoke drift above the main burning ghat. Instead of being upset I found it a deeply moving place. Women are excluded from the funeral groups and the men dressed in white, quietly wait for the cremation ceremony. Photography is naturally strictly prohibited but there is no problem about watching life, or death, in the raw. It is quiet and dignified, a place of serenity in a city that throbs with life.
A walk through the confusing maze of alleys is best taken with a guide. Mine was very good and seemed to know everyone. He could also tell me who permitted a photograph, and who was shy. A handful of rupees usually brought a smile, or at least a pose, from a few characters…and Varanasi is brim full of characters.
Since Varanasi is a very holy and traditional Hindu city many of its temples and mosques are closed to non followers of that faith like the Alamgir Mosque and the Chausath Yogini Temple. The city’s very own golden temple, the Kashi Vishvanath Temple , so named because of the gold plate on its spire, is also closed to non Hindus.
One or two days are needed in the city, to at least get over the culture shock! The city oozes cultural experiences with its rich heritage in art, dance and frequent music festivals.
The Ganga Aarti should not be missed. Four years ago, when I first observed it from a boat, I found the whole experience quite spine tingling. In subsequent years I have been fortunate enough to enjoy the aarti at Haridwar, Rishikesh and Pushkar and realise, like Gods in the Hindu faith, no two are the same. I wondered if returning to a place which had so moved me in the past would be a wise decision. However in India it does not matter if you visit the same place year after year, or even day after day, there will always be something to amuse, amaze or surprise you.
This time we were given front row seats just behind the young priests. It was a fantastically close view of proceedings and soon I was swept up in the whole spectacle. The crowd behind me were singing Vedic hymns and praying along with the priests. There were bells ringing and smoke from the priests’ lamps went swirling into the night sky.

At the end of the ceremony pilgrims lit the small earthenware oil lamps called diyas, or candles sitting on leaves decorated with flowers, and after saying a few words of prayer gently lowered them on to the Ganges. As they released them and they floated downstream they looked like hundreds of fireflies lighting up the night sky.

By the time it was all finished I was ready for a fresh pomegranate juice and head home.
However my evening’s entertainment was not finished as my car had to pull in to the side of the street to let a wedding party pass. April is the wedding season and there were firecrackers and a band, dancing and singing. Guests were even carrying lamps on their heads. It was impossible not to get caught up in all the fun and happiness, their exuberance was quite infectious!
On my last morning it happened again. I was in my room and heard the cacophony of sound that heralds a wedding band. I grabbed my camera and hurried outside. The revellers had already passed laughing and joking and as I looked down the young couple were following.
He was striding in front
wearing a scarf around his neck called a Pichuari. Tied to the end of this was another scarf, worn by his new bride who walked behind under an umbrella to shade her from the intense heat. Alongside her walked her mother- in- law with a protective arm on her new daughter’s shoulder. Being the guardian of the family she was taking the newly- weds to a temple in the city for a blessing. As I looked down on this intimate scene I thought about this young girl who had now left the security of her parents’ home to start a new life with her husband and his family. It brought back memories of my last trip from Varanasi. As I lay in my bunk in the train I could hear a strange noise and slowly realised it was the muffled crying from the next berth where a new bride sat, embarking on her journey to her new home. It brought a lump to my throat too.
Fortunately the overnight train to Delhi was not so emotional and it was great just to lie back and enjoy the ever changing scene outside. Next day, I boarded the modern express train to Amritsar, arriving late in the evening.
Amritsar, although not a terribly pretty city, brims with colour and interesting faces. It has a few places of interest which a full day would cover. My focus was the Golden Temple and my first glimpse of it was mid morning. I had remembered to bring a scarf to cover my head, deposited my shoes and washed my hands and feet. As I approached the top of the stairs I caught my first glance of the Temple. I think it is as breathtaking as the Taj Mahal as it floats upon the water. Its golden dome dazzled in the sunshine. The overwhelming feeling is of peace and spirituality, for me quite different to the Taj. This is a “living” monument. Whilst the Taj was built out of love it is, after all, a mausoleum.
I joined the pilgrims wandering round the complex in a clockwise direction on the Parikrama, a white marble pathway which burns feet in April. Once the circuit is complete, I had to
wait with the crowd to cross the causeway into the inner sanctum of the temple.
The temple which houses the Holy Book, the Guru Granth Sahib, is the Hari Mandir, the holiest site for Sikhs. Throughout the day text is recited from it and musicians play softly and this is relayed outside by loudspeaker. It is possible to sit inside and just watch proceedings and no one will disturb you as long as you take no photographs. It is exquisitely decorated inside with beautiful pietra dura.
I decided to return later for the evening prayers when the Holy Book is taken to its resting place at night.
Next stop was Jallianwala Bagh, the site of one of the worst atrocities during British rule. In 1919, around 20 000 people had gathered in this garden surrounded by tall residential buildings to protest about the arrest of some nationalist leaders. General Dyer ordered his troops to open fire on the crowd, killing hundreds. It was quite easy to imagine how claustrophobic it must have felt and the panic it created. I did feel a sense of guilt about being British that afternoon and somehow it made history seem more po
ignant.
My mood was lifted by a trip to see the border ceremony at Wagah. I made the mistake of taking possibly the oldest, dirtiest and most definitely slowest auto rickshaw in the world. I was convinced it would take 24 hours to drive 6 mile. It did however offer opportunities to see the fertile countryside outside Amritsar at virtually walking pace and later, at no pace, when we had to stop in the impending dark to change a tyre after we had a puncture.
The ceremony itself was hilarious and rather camp! A commentator marched around whipping up patriotic fervour and it was possible to see the Pakistani crowd on the other side of the gate. Bollywood tunes blared out and young men waved flags enthusiastically.
A note for ladies is that bags are not allowed, so to avoid anxiety leave them at the hotel. There is a short walk to the seated area but the road is well maintained and flat. Arrive early to grab the best seats.
I think the highlight of the entire visit to Amritsar was the return to the Golden Temple at dusk. It had been very hot and it was refreshing to sit in the shade around the pool and relax with all the families. Feeling rather hungry my companion and I ventured into the Guru ka Langar, the free kitchen where volunteers serve simple meals to everyone. The food was delicious but it was a strain to sit cross legged on the floor, eating with my fingers without spilling everything into my lap!
I was definitely th
e focus of attention but people smiled shyly and it was definitely a memorable night.
Once you finish you hand utensils to one group and the tin tray to another who then throws it man to man down the line until they are all gathered in one big bucket to be taken to lots of people standing washing at huge sinks. The clattering of trays and buzz of chat made me definitely want to roll my sleeves up and muck in.
At around 10pm there was a flurry of activity as volunteers, male only, were called to participate in the Palaki Sahib. The Holy Book is carried back into the building called Aktal Tahkt for the night.
Reluctantly, it was time to go, just one last look at the Golden Temple sitting on an inky black pool under a clear starry sky and crescent moon.
Years ago I had turned at the gates of the Taj Mahal and vowed to return.
I made the same promise tonight. The Golden Temple is definitely worth revisiting.